Growing Big In Love

WELCOME TO

GROWING BIG IN LOVE

We Invite You To Explore A Life Where LOVE Is Your Guiding Light – Moment By Moment

- Spiritual Guidance with Raven

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ARE YOU READY TO WELCOME LOVE INTO YOUR LIFE?

Imagine a life where LOVE is not just a feeling, but a way of being — where every day brings more healing, more connection, and more joy.

Spiritual Guide, Raven

Why Join the Growing Big In LOVE Movement?

To Gently Transform Your Life:

Discover the power of the Seven LOVE Tools that will enable you to focus on LOVE moment by moment. Can you imagine what that will do for your life? As you integrate them into your life, you’ll notice your relationships deepen, your health improve, and a new sense of joy, peace, and wonder taking root within you.

To Heal Through LOVE:

Learn to integrate the LOVE Healing Process, into your life, a daily practice of metaphysical understandings of how to heal all kinds of trauma, to discover the truth about unloving and limiting beliefs, and to change and heal the unloving patterns caused by those beliefs, which is what causes your pain. This is about true, lasting transformation. With each step, you’ll feel happier, healthier, stronger, more aware and more intelligent, aligning with the limitless LOVE that has always been within you.

To Deepen Your Connection With LOVE:

Learn how to develop a deeply personal, loving relationship with LOVE, the Divine, your Guides, or that which is creating you, making LOVE your best friend ever. This is about discovering your own unique way of feeling, hearing, and receiving LOVE’s guidance in your everyday life.

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When you commit to growing in LOVE daily, healing through LOVE and understanding, and developing a personal relationship with LOVE/the Divine, something incredible happens. These three practices work together to create a transformation far greater than any one or two alone.

Those who embrace this path will naturally become Emissaries of LOVE—living examples of what it means to live in LOVE, paving the way for a new way of being in the world. This is what we mean by the Growing Big In LOVE Movement.

Are You Ready to Become an Emissary of LOVE?

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN
YOU BECOME AN EMISSARY OF LOVE

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An Intimate Relationship with LOVE

Picture waking up in the morning with a smile in your heart and on your face, hearing LOVE say, “Good morning, Beautiful! I LOVE you! What adventure shall we go on today?”

Living In Love Every Moment

Imagine the joy of gently weaving LOVE into each breath, each step, each interaction—filling your days with warmth, kindness, and heartfelt connection.

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Strengthening Your Heart

When you consciously choose to focus on LOVE moment by moment, you are directly strengthening your willpower through your heart which actually grows your spiritual body bigger and bigger. Strengthening your will power through your heart can be used to do marvelous things.

Achieving Emotional Freedom

Picture the sweet relief of feeling a trigger rise up, but instead of falling into old patterns, you smile, embody your newfound truth and through LOVE, glide right through it. This is a practice you can use to heal diseases and health challenges.

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Healing From Within, Guided by LOVE

With the new understandings that the Key Concepts provide us about pain, we now realize that every trauma and hardship we have experienced—both in this life and past lives—was meant to teach us what happens when the power of LOVE is misused. We are invited to learn from it, not with force, but with the tender grace of healing.

A Life Filled with Playfulness and Joy

As you grow in LOVE, you become aware of the lightness of your soul – the part of you that LOVES to laugh, to dance, to play with life like a child discovering the world for the first time.

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Deep Connection and Joyful Intimacy

LOVE, in its most profound and authentic form, includes not just emotional and spiritual connection but also a heightened appreciation for touch, sensuality, sexuality, closeness, and passionate expression. As you grow in LOVE, all of these just keep getting better and better and better.

A Growing Awareness of Truth Through Love

When you get really big in LOVE, you gain the ability to understand the truth about almost anything, for yourself. You become more aware of the truth within and around you, seeing through confusion with a LOVING perspective, a knowing that helps you make decisions with confidence and peace.

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Connection To a Supportive Community

By joining the movement, you’ll be surrounded by a warm-hearted community of like-minded souls, all working together to grow in LOVE, support each other’s healing, honors each person’s uniqueness, and celebrate life’s wonders.

Enhanced Creativity and Inspiration

Whether it’s in your personal or professional life, LOVE inspires greater creativity, clearer vision, and the courage to pursue your dreams with excitement and passion. It’s like opening to a river of abundant exciting creative energy.

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Deepened Self-love and Acceptance

One of the most beautiful gifts of this movement is the opportunity to fall deeply in LOVE with yourself. As you heal old wounds and release limiting beliefs, you create space for true self-LOVE, acceptance, an inner glow that radiates outward, and a knowing that you are a part of LOVE and LOVE is a part of you.

Bringing More Love Into the World

By being part of this movement, you become an emissary for change, helping to heal the world by simply being more LOVING, more conscious, and more you.

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WELCOME TO THE LIVING AND HEALING IN LOVE CLASSES

Start your journey to becoming an emissary of LOVE. Sign up for these two classes that are FREE introductory interactive presentations.

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Duration: 60 min | Next Session: Wednesday, April 30th at 11 am Pacific

Developing an Intimate Relationship with Spirit

UPCOMING CLASS: REGISTER HERE!
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Duration: 60 mins | Next Session: Tuesday, May 13th at 7 am Pacific.

Introduction to the
Love Tools

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Raven, Spiritual Guide

STEP INTO OUR
MOST POWERFUL TRANSFORMATIONAL
PROGRAMS

Deepen your connection with LOVE, heal your life, and become an Emissary of LOVE by committing to your own personal developmental journey.

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Testimonials and Real-Life Success Stories

The success of Growing Big In LOVE is not just theoretical; it’s demonstrated through real-life success stories:

What Our Happy Clients Are Saying…

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Five Years of Growing and Healing in Love

When I took the Love Mastery Course five years ago and embarked on a life of regularly using the Love Healing Process, I never imagined what incredible growth I would experience in my life!...

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She Had Stage
IV Pancreatic
Cancer

Growing Big in Love was an indispensable part of a very intense healing journey I went on. I was diagnosed with Stage lV pancreatic cancer in November 2022. By January 2023, I was in remission...

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Healing
Rage

The thing about being angry is that it feels completely justified and it becomes invisible and you don’t really “see” it. But others see it in you. That is what I was experiencing. I started to wake up to the rage...

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Felicia’s Healing Journey

I have had an amazing life, and up until 2006 I was blessed with radiant health. An athlete all of my life, I was agile, flexible, strong, active and never really had to worry about my body being available to whatever...

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There are ten powerful stories of healing in the book.

LOVE'S MESSAGE

The Growing Big In LOVE movement, this site, the book, the classes, and the healing that comes from the doing of it are endorsed and blessed by LOVE.

You can read LOVE’s Message HERE.

Raven, Spiritual Teacher

About Your Spiritual Teacher, Raven

Raven

For over 30 years, I have devoted my life to developing a transformative path called Growing Big In LOVE. This journey has led to the creation of a 380-page book, written in everyday language, that explores the seven LOVE Tools, the metaphysics of how beliefs shape our lives, the LOVE Healing Process, and the profound experience of developing a personal intimate one-on-one relationship with Spirit/LOVE.

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MY JOURNEY AND COMMITMENT

Since the age of 19, I have been searching for deeper meaning—seeking to understand the purpose of life and how to bring more LOVE into our everyday experiences. This journey has been one of exploration, learning, and personal transformation, filled with trial and error, deep reflection, and a heartfelt desire to find what truly heals.
Along the way, I have discovered powerful insights and practices that have profoundly changed my life and the lives of many others. It has been humbling and awe-inspiring to witness the deep healing that unfolds—helping people release trauma, overcome health challenges, and step into a life filled with LOVE. Every person is unique, each on their own sacred journey of understanding and growth. I don’t claim to have all the answers, but I do know this: when we open our hearts to LOVE, healing and transformation becomes possible in ways we never imagined. My hope is simply to share what has helped me, in case it may help you too. I warmly invite you to explore this journey with me and see where LOVE leads you.

THE HEART OF GROWING BIG IN LOVE

Twelve Profound Concepts That Illuminate this Path of Love

“These extraordinary concepts have helped me transform my life, and I invite you to explore them with an open heart.

They may change your life too.”

The Key Concepts Include:

  • EARTH’S OBJECTIVE (In short, we are here to learn how to love no matter what.)
  • REVEALING TRUTH THROUGH YOUR OPEN HEART
  • COMMUNICATING DIRECTLY WITH SPIRIT
  • UNLOVING BELIEFS
  • LOVE REVERSALS
  • LOVE REVERSAL LOOPS
  • TRANSITION PHASE
  • THE MIND
  • MEMORY
  • KARMA
  • The Right Wrong Paradigm
  • The Other Side

A Whole New Way to Understand the Mind, Memory, and Karma

Some understandings have the power to shift everything we thought we knew about healing, growth, and living in LOVE. The insights within Growing Big In LOVE offer a groundbreaking perspective on the Mind, Memory, and Karma—not as distant, abstract ideas, but as deeply personal truths that can transform your daily life.

Through this journey, I’ve discovered that parts of the mind can be consciously engaged to help us heal. I’ve come to understand how LOVE Reversals and LOVE Reversal Loops influence the way we experience life, shaping our beliefs in ways we may not even realize. This deeper knowledge has the potential to unlock some of the most hidden traumas and patterns—things that many have struggled to heal but never fully understood before.

When these concepts stand alone, they are powerful. But when woven together, they create a transformative path—one that doesn’t just inspire, but actively provides you with transformative tools that provide step-by-step guidance on how to grow in LOVE, heal the pain within you, and deepen your connection with LOVE/Spirit. As you explore them, you’ll gain not only insight but also the ability to take meaningful action toward a life of greater peace, healing, and divine connection.

Learn More About Key Concepts
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Five Years of Growing and Healing in Love

“When I took the Love Mastery Course five years ago and embarked on a life of regularly using the Love Healing Process, I never imagined what incredible growth I would experience in my life! The Love Mastery Course helped me to identify the unloving beliefs that were running me and making me feel hurt, angry and afraid much of the time. I then discovered all of the Love Reversal Loops that were keeping me stuck because it felt so familiar to feel like a victim and blame others and outside circumstances for my feelings. And because the Love Healing Process involves a regular practice of Love Time and other tools to add love into my life and make life fun and filled with amazement and joy, I was soon able to understand the loving truth instead of the unloving beliefs. I was even able to appreciate all the gifts I have gleaned in my life as a result of my unloving beliefs and fears, including many accomplishments I’ve made, rather than feeling regret for all those years I wasn’t aware. My daily practice of connecting with the Divine through presence, curiosity, gratitude and awe, has helped me both to stay in a state of love, understand my own pain when it comes up, and question the truth of it right away. I’ve also been able to see and understand other people’s pain and Love Reversal Loops, and instead of feeling like a victim to their actions, I can set healthy boundaries with them while feeling compassion for them.

As a result of regularly using the Love Healing Process for the past five years, my attitude about life has completely changed! I am in a state of constant gratitude and awe, and all the amazing people and events that come into my life feel like icing on the cake! I celebrate each person and embrace each event without feeling like I need to fix or change them. I no longer feel jealous, left out, or hurt by other people’s actions, and I now feel an abundance of time and money, and an explosion of creativity, in a way that I never did before!”

-Raquel, San Jose, CA

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She Had Stage lV Pancreatic Cancer

“Growing Big in Love was an indispensable part of a very intense healing journey I went on. I was diagnosed with Stage lV pancreatic cancer in November 2022. By January 2023, I was in remission. I used the Growing Big in Love methodology very diligently along with western allopathic medical treatments, an intentionally selected combination of energetic and somatic-based holistic therapies, and the love and support of an extensive network of family and friends. Clearing past emotional blockages and filling up with positive, loving energy is instrumental in healing pretty much anything. For me, this was true! If you’re willing to do the work that this methodology proposes, I predict that miraculous healing can be available to you. I’m eternally grateful for Raven and Growing Big in Love! I was able to rapidly return to health, vibrancy and holistic well-being. May it be so for you also!”

On September 26, 2024, a little over a year and a half after CR’s healing, she sent me this message:

My life is going even better than it was before I got sick! I am so full of gratitude and joy to be living and loving at a whole other level. To be here now makes my challenging journey 1,000,000% worth it!

-CR, Oakland, CA

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Healing Rage

“The thing about being angry is that it feels completely justified and it becomes invisible and you don’t really “see” it. But others see it in you. That is what I was experiencing. I started to wake up to the rage I felt about the fullness of what it meant to be a woman through the ages. I was very angry and I was justified. There was only one problem… it wasn’t helping me and. It wasn’t helping the world. Through Raven’s work and guidance, I began dismantling the layers of deeply seated anger and move towards the embodiment of my even deeper truth and discover what it means to be a loving being. I am so much happier when I am in the state of love, having unraveled my Love reversals and love reversal loops, rather than being in the grips of relentless anger. I feel a freedom that wasn’t possible before. I am grateful for the depth of work that Raven brings and the illumination of my unencumbered self.”

-EB, Mill Valley, CA

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Felicia’s Healing Journey

“I have had an amazing life, and up until 2006 I was blessed with radiant health. An athlete all of my life, I was agile, flexible, strong, active and never really had to worry about my body being available to whatever I wanted to do in life. The strongest thing I had ever taken for pain was an aspirin and I did not know what it would be like to have pain daily.

In 2006, a series of hardships happened that caused me to experience a great deal of heartache. In January, my best friend died. In February, my father, who was a foundation of love and support for me throughout my whole life, died. In April, Jerry, my ex-husband whom I loved dearly, died. Losing three of my closest friends and family in four months was devastating. The sense of loss I felt was overwhelming. And in May, I was doing a performance on stage, and I tripped over a monitor, banged my knee, and twisted my back.

From that time on I had a series of painful issues with my knees, hips, back, and feet. For fourteen years the pain traveled; it was in my left foot, then my right knee, then my hips, then it was my right foot, then it was my back.

I tried many different healing modalities to help myself heal and to manage the pain. I tried nutritional supplements, three different chiropractors, body work, pool therapy, physical therapy, energy work, and orthotics. For a time, each of my feet were in a soft cast. I tried acupuncture two or three times, but it never really helped very much. Some of the modalities brought temporary relief. Pool therapy helped with my mobility, but not pain. Body work helped with pain temporarily.

When I met Raven, I had been in pain for over 13 years. And in the last year, the pain in my knees and hips was so severe, I was in daily pain. For the first time in my life, I was taking heavy prescription pain medicine just to get through the day. Just the week before I saw Raven, I’d gone to see a surgeon to surrender to have knee replacement surgery and was awaiting a call to schedule it.

I contacted Raven, read the chapters he directed me to in Growing Big In Love, and in one session I felt relief in my knee. After hearing my story, Raven suggested that I try to reconnect with my father, that he was here for me. He asked me if I could remember any ritual I used when I was with him that would generate the endearment I had felt with him when he was alive. I said I used to sit on his lap and he would hold me and I would massage his bald spot. So Raven suggested that I do that ritual with him where he is now, the place where we go when we die. As soon as I asked to talk with my father, he was right there as if he was waiting for me all that time. It was beautiful and really connecting. When my father died, I had had a feeling of being left unsupported. Reestablishing the relationship on a somatic level was amazing. Being able to feel the presence of my father’s love for me, it made all the difference in the world. I wasn’t in this crazy world by myself. It gave me back my center.

Over the next few days and weeks, I would include these interludes with my father and Jerry in my meditations. It felt so good to interact with both of them. Within a few days I started to notice less pain and after a few more days, there was no pain in my hips or knees.

Today, I’m completely off pain meds, joyously riding my bicycle with my husband, able to sit cross-legged and comfortable in my yoga practice. My joy and energy for life are back, and everyone around me (family, clients, co-workers) all benefit from my aliveness, presence and love.”

-Dr. Felicia Williams Cosey, San Leandro, CA