Growing Big In Love

WELCOME TO

GROWING BIG IN LOVE

  • IT’S A WHOLE NEW SPIRITUAL PATH
  • IT’S A WHOLE NEW WORLD MOVEMENT
  • IT’S A WHOLE NEW WAY TO LIVE
  • IT’S ALL ABOUT LOVE

- Spiritual Guidance with Raven

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Are You Ready for a Life Filled with LOVE and Transformation?

Discover a revolutionary approach to living, healing, and growing in LOVE every day.
This path isn’t just about spirituality - it’s about transforming every aspect of your life, bringing LOVE into your heart, mind, and soul.

Spiritual Guide, Raven

Why Join the Growing Big In LOVE Movement?

TO Transform Your Life:

Learn to master the seven LOVE Tools in two to three months so you can live from a place of LOVE, moment by moment, and watch as your relationships, health, and happiness blossom.

TO Heal Through LOVE:

Master the world’s most powerful healing method — the LOVE Healing Process. This transformative approach harnesses deep metaphysical principles to heal long-held trauma, unloving beliefs, and harmful patterns, leading to profound, lasting healing and personal growth. With each step, you become healthier, happier, stronger, more intelligent, and more aligned with LOVE.

TO Connect With LOVE:

Learn how to develop a deeply personal relationship with LOVE/ the Divine/your Guides/ that which is creating you, making LOVE your best friend ever, and receive guidance and support every step of the way.

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When a person commits to emboding all three practices, the synergy they create unleashes a transformative power far greater than doing any one or two alone. Those of you who embrace this and choose to dedicate your lives to embodying these three wonder filled practices, YOU will become the emissaries of LOVE, YOU will pave the way into the New Age of Knowing.

Are You Ready To Learn How To Transform Your Life Through LOVE & Understanding?

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN
YOU BECOME AN EMISSARY OF LOVE

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An Intimate Relationship with LOVE

Picture waking up in the morning with a smile in your heart and on your face, hearing LOVE say, “Good morning, Beautiful! I LOVE you! What adventure shall we go on today?”

Living In Love Every Moment

Imagine the joy of gently weaving LOVE into each breath, each step, each interaction—filling your days with warmth, kindness, and heartfelt connection.

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Strengthening Your Heart

When you consciously choose to focus on LOVE moment by moment, you are directly strengthening your willpower through your heart. This gives you a strength you have never had before, one that can be used to do marvelous things.

Mastering Emotional Freedom

Picture the sweet relief of feeling a trigger rise up, but instead of falling into old patterns, you smile, embody your newfound truth and through LOVE, glide right through it. This is how you heal diseases and health challenges.

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Healing From Within, Guided by LOVE

With the new understandings that the Key Concepts provide us about pain, we now realize that every trauma and hardship we have experienced—both in this life and past lives—was meant to teach us what happens when the power of LOVE is misused. We are invited to learn from it, not with force, but with the tender grace of healing.

A Life Filled with Playfulness and Joy

As you grow in LOVE, you become aware of the lightness of your soul – the part of you that LOVES to laugh, to dance, to play with life like a child discovering the world for the first time.

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Deep Connection and Joyful Intimacy

LOVE, in its most profound and authentic form, includes not just emotional and spiritual connection but also a heightened appreciation for touch, sensuality, sexuality, closeness, and passionate expression. As you grow in LOVE, all of these just keep getting better and better and better.

A Growing Awareness of Truth Through Love

Imagine the clarity that comes when LOVE is your guide. You become more aware of the truth within and around you, seeing through confusion with a LOVING perspective, a knowing that helps you make decisions with confidence and peace.

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Connection To a Supportive Community

By joining the movement, you’ll be surrounded by a warm-hearted community of like-minded souls, all working together to grow in LOVE, support each other’s healing, honors each person’s uniqueness, and celebrate life’s wonders.

Enhanced Creativity and Inspiration

Whether it’s in your personal or professional life, LOVE inspires greater creativity, clearer vision, and the courage to pursue your dreams with excitement and passion. It’s like opening to a river of abundant exciting creative energy.

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Deepened Self-love and Acceptance

One of the most beautiful gifts of this movement is the opportunity to fall deeply in LOVE with yourself. As you heal old wounds and release limiting beliefs, you create space for true self-LOVE, acceptance, an inner glow that radiates outward, and a knowing that you are a part of LOVE and LOVE is a part of you.

Bringing More Love Into the World

By being part of this movement, you become a force for change, helping to heal the world by simply being more LOVING, more conscious, and more you.

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WELCOME TO THE LIVING AND HEALING IN LOVE CLASSES

Start your journey to becoming an emissary of LOVE. Sign up for these six classes that are FREE introductory interactive presentations.

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Duration: 60 mins | Next Session: Nov 5, 2024, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

Introduction to the Love Tools

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Duration: 60 min | Next Session: Nov 19, 2024, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

Developing an Intimate Relationship with Spirit

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Duration: 60 min | Next Session: Dec 3, 2024, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Love Healing Process for Everyday Life – Stage One

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Duration: 60 min | Next Session: Jan 7, 2025, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Love Healing Process – Stage Two

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Duration: 60 min | Next Session: Jan 21, 2025, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Love Healing Process – Stage Three

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Duration: 60 min | Next Session: Feb 4, 2025, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Right Wrong Paradigm

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Raven, Spiritual Guide

STEP INTO OUR
MOST POWERFUL TRANSFORMATIONAL
PROGRAMS

Deepen your connection with LOVE, heal your life, and become an Emissary of LOVE by stepping into a new spiritual path of personal mastery.

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Testimonials and Real-Life Success Stories

The success of Growing Big In LOVE is not just theoretical; it’s demonstrated through real-life success stories:

What Our Happy Clients Are Saying…

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Five Years of Growing and Healing in Love

When I took the Love Mastery Course five years ago and embarked on a life of regularly using the Love Healing Process, I never imagined what incredible growth I would experience in my life!...

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She Had Stage
lV Pancreatic Cancer

Growing Big in Love was an indispensable part of a very intense healing journey I went on. I was diagnosed with Stage lV pancreatic cancer in November 2022. By January 2023, I was in remission...

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Healing
Rage

The thing about being angry is that it feels completely justified and it becomes invisible and you don’t really “see” it. But others see it in you. That is what I was experiencing. I started to wake up to the rage...

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Felicia’s Healing Journey

I have had an amazing life, and up until 2006 I was blessed with radiant health. An athlete all of my life, I was agile, flexible, strong, active and never really had to worry about my body being available to whatever...

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There are ten powerful stories of healing in the book.

LOVE'S MESSAGE

The Growing Big In LOVE movement, this site, the book, the classes, and the healing that comes from the doing of it are endorsed and blessed by Spirit.

You can read LOVE’s Message HERE.

Raven, Spiritual Teacher

About Your Spiritual Teacher, Raven

Raven

For over 30 years, I have dedicated my life to developing a transformative path called Growing Big In LOVE. This journey has culminated in a 380-page book, written in layman’s terms, that explains the seven LOVE Tools, the metaphysics about how beliefs work, the LOVE Healing Process, how to develop a one-on-one relationship with Spirit/LOVE, and the ten Key Concepts that are completely new to the world, that make all this possible.

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MY JOURNEY AND COMMITMENT

Since the age of 19, I have been driven by a quest to understand the purpose of life and how to bring more LOVE into our everyday experiences. This path has been filled with extensive research, trial and error, and countless hours of interpersonal work to prove that the concepts I’ve developed truly work. The results have been profound, helping individuals heal themselves from various diseases and traumatic experiences, while helping them learn to live an extraordinary life completelly immersed in LOVE.

THE FOUNDATION THAT GROWING BIG IN LOVE IS BASED ON

TWELVE NEW CONCEPTS COMPLETLEY NEW TO THE WORLD

The Key Concepts Include:

  • EARTH’S OBJECTIVE (In short, we are here to learn how to love no matter what.)
  • REVEALING TRUTH THROUGH YOUR OPEN HEART
  • COMMUNICATING DIRECTLY WITH SPIRIT
  • UNLOVING BELIEFS
  • LOVE REVERSALS
  • LOVE REVERSAL LOOPS
  • TRANSITION PHASE
  • THE MIND
  • MEMORY
  • KARMA
  • The Right Wrong Paradigm
  • The Other Side

A totally new groundbreaking understanding of the Mind, Memory, and Karma—these are not small concepts, and each takes an entire chapter to explain in Growing Big In LOVE. This new understanding of the Mind shows you there are parts of your mind that you can consciously use to aid you in healing. LOVE Reversals and LOVE Reversal Loops will change the way the world understands healing. They will unlock the ability to heal some of the deepest, most hidden traumas, much of which has never been fully understood before.

Each one of these concepts stands as powerful tools on their own, and when combined, they create a transformative journey that inspires you to live fully in LOVE while healing the barriers that hold you back. Together, they become invaluable guides on your path to wholeness and spiritual growth.

Learn More About Key Concepts
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Your heartbeat, from the one who is creating you, is their way of saying to you, I LOVE you, I LOVE you, I LOVE you, I LOVE you…
Serving: Worldwide

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Duration: 60 mins | Next Session: Nov 5, 2024, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

Introduction to the Love Tools

Learn the seven Love Tools and how to use them daily to feel love moment by moment. This foundational class will help you establish the practice of integrating love into every aspect of your life, creating powerful shifts in your heart and mind.

Key Outcomes:

  • Understand how to use the Loving Smile and Love Time
  • Strengthen your willpower through love
  • Begin your journey to learning how to Glide
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Duration: 60 minutes | Next Session: Nov 19, 2024, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

Developing an Intimate Relationship with Spirit

Discover the joy of developing a deep personal relationship with Spirit. Learn how to communicate directly, seek guidance, and build a partnership where Spirit becomes your best friend.

Key Outcomes:

  • Learn techniques to communicate directly with Spirit
  • Deepen your spiritual awareness and connection
  • Discover a personal way for Spirit to tell you they Love you
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Duration: 60 minutes | Next Session: Dec 3, 2024, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Love Healing Process for Everyday Life – Stage One

This class dives into the powerful Love Healing Process – Stage One, teaching you how find the original trauma, discover the belief is not true, discover the gifts you have learned, and releasing the pain the belief has held within you.

Key Outcomes:

  • How beliefs work
  • Identify unloving beliefs and habits
  • An overview of Stages One
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Duration: 60 minutes | Next Session: Jan 7, 2025, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Love Healing Process – Stage Two

This class reveals the life of a belief, teaches you what a supporting trauma is, and shows you how to heal it.

Key Outcomes:

  • Once an unloving belief is created, how does it grow
  • You can heal the unloving belief by understanding that it is not true
  • Finding the supporting traumas to your beliefs
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Duration: 60 minutes | Next Session: Jan 21, 2025, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Love Healing Process – Stage Three

All unloving beliefs are supported by habits that literally hold us hostage. We will explore different ways to break free of the hold they have on us through understanding and using Love Tools to change them.

Key Outcomes:

  • How does the habits support the unloving beliefs
  • Find the habits
  • Different techniques you can use to heal the habits
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Duration: 60 minutes | Next Session: Feb 4, 2025, Time: 6:00 pm Pacific

The Right Wrong Paradigm

The Right-Wrong Paradigm is one of the greatest sources of pain in most people's lives. Understanding it, will give you choices you didn’t know you had.

Key Outcomes:

  • The Right Wrong Paradigm verses Cause and Effect
  • Stepping away from the Right Wrong Paradigm
  • Practice on how to live in Cause and Effect
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Five Years of Growing and Healing in Love

“When I took the Love Mastery Course five years ago and embarked on a life of regularly using the Love Healing Process, I never imagined what incredible growth I would experience in my life! The Love Mastery Course helped me to identify the unloving beliefs that were running me and making me feel hurt, angry and afraid much of the time. I then discovered all of the Love Reversal Loops that were keeping me stuck because it felt so familiar to feel like a victim and blame others and outside circumstances for my feelings. And because the Love Healing Process involves a regular practice of Love Time and other tools to add love into my life and make life fun and filled with amazement and joy, I was soon able to understand the loving truth instead of the unloving beliefs. I was even able to appreciate all the gifts I have gleaned in my life as a result of my unloving beliefs and fears, including many accomplishments I’ve made, rather than feeling regret for all those years I wasn’t aware. My daily practice of connecting with the Divine through presence, curiosity, gratitude and awe, has helped me both to stay in a state of love, understand my own pain when it comes up, and question the truth of it right away. I’ve also been able to see and understand other people’s pain and Love Reversal Loops, and instead of feeling like a victim to their actions, I can set healthy boundaries with them while feeling compassion for them.

As a result of regularly using the Love Healing Process for the past five years, my attitude about life has completely changed! I am in a state of constant gratitude and awe, and all the amazing people and events that come into my life feel like icing on the cake! I celebrate each person and embrace each event without feeling like I need to fix or change them. I no longer feel jealous, left out, or hurt by other people’s actions, and I now feel an abundance of time and money, and an explosion of creativity, in a way that I never did before!”

-Raquel, San Jose, CA

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She Had Stage lV Pancreatic Cancer

“Growing Big in Love was an indispensable part of a very intense healing journey I went on. I was diagnosed with Stage lV pancreatic cancer in November 2022. By January 2023, I was in remission. I used the Growing Big in Love methodology very diligently along with western allopathic medical treatments, an intentionally selected combination of energetic and somatic-based holistic therapies, and the love and support of an extensive network of family and friends. Clearing past emotional blockages and filling up with positive, loving energy is instrumental in healing pretty much anything. For me, this was true! If you’re willing to do the work that this methodology proposes, I predict that miraculous healing can be available to you. I’m eternally grateful for Raven and Growing Big in Love! I was able to rapidly return to health, vibrancy and holistic well-being. May it be so for you also!”

On September 26, 2024, a little over a year and a half after CR’s healing, she sent me this message:

My life is going even better than it was before I got sick! I am so full of gratitude and joy to be living and loving at a whole other level. To be here now makes my challenging journey 1,000,000% worth it!

-CR, Oakland, CA

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Healing Rage

“The thing about being angry is that it feels completely justified and it becomes invisible and you don’t really “see” it. But others see it in you. That is what I was experiencing. I started to wake up to the rage I felt about the fullness of what it meant to be a woman through the ages. I was very angry and I was justified. There was only one problem… it wasn’t helping me and. It wasn’t helping the world. Through Raven’s work and guidance, I began dismantling the layers of deeply seated anger and move towards the embodiment of my even deeper truth and discover what it means to be a loving being. I am so much happier when I am in the state of love, having unraveled my Love reversals and love reversal loops, rather than being in the grips of relentless anger. I feel a freedom that wasn’t possible before. I am grateful for the depth of work that Raven brings and the illumination of my unencumbered self.”

-EB, Mill Valley, CA

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Felicia’s Healing Journey

“I have had an amazing life, and up until 2006 I was blessed with radiant health. An athlete all of my life, I was agile, flexible, strong, active and never really had to worry about my body being available to whatever I wanted to do in life. The strongest thing I had ever taken for pain was an aspirin and I did not know what it would be like to have pain daily.

In 2006, a series of hardships happened that caused me to experience a great deal of heartache. In January, my best friend died. In February, my father, who was a foundation of love and support for me throughout my whole life, died. In April, Jerry, my ex-husband whom I loved dearly, died. Losing three of my closest friends and family in four months was devastating. The sense of loss I felt was overwhelming. And in May, I was doing a performance on stage, and I tripped over a monitor, banged my knee, and twisted my back.

From that time on I had a series of painful issues with my knees, hips, back, and feet. For fourteen years the pain traveled; it was in my left foot, then my right knee, then my hips, then it was my right foot, then it was my back.

I tried many different healing modalities to help myself heal and to manage the pain. I tried nutritional supplements, three different chiropractors, body work, pool therapy, physical therapy, energy work, and orthotics. For a time, each of my feet were in a soft cast. I tried acupuncture two or three times, but it never really helped very much. Some of the modalities brought temporary relief. Pool therapy helped with my mobility, but not pain. Body work helped with pain temporarily.

When I met Raven, I had been in pain for over 13 years. And in the last year, the pain in my knees and hips was so severe, I was in daily pain. For the first time in my life, I was taking heavy prescription pain medicine just to get through the day. Just the week before I saw Raven, I’d gone to see a surgeon to surrender to have knee replacement surgery and was awaiting a call to schedule it.

I contacted Raven, read the chapters he directed me to in Growing Big In Love, and in one session I felt relief in my knee. After hearing my story, Raven suggested that I try to reconnect with my father, that he was here for me. He asked me if I could remember any ritual I used when I was with him that would generate the endearment I had felt with him when he was alive. I said I used to sit on his lap and he would hold me and I would massage his bald spot. So Raven suggested that I do that ritual with him where he is now, the place where we go when we die. As soon as I asked to talk with my father, he was right there as if he was waiting for me all that time. It was beautiful and really connecting. When my father died, I had had a feeling of being left unsupported. Reestablishing the relationship on a somatic level was amazing. Being able to feel the presence of my father’s love for me, it made all the difference in the world. I wasn’t in this crazy world by myself. It gave me back my center.

Over the next few days and weeks, I would include these interludes with my father and Jerry in my meditations. It felt so good to interact with both of them. Within a few days I started to notice less pain and after a few more days, there was no pain in my hips or knees.

Today, I’m completely off pain meds, joyously riding my bicycle with my husband, able to sit cross-legged and comfortable in my yoga practice. My joy and energy for life are back, and everyone around me (family, clients, co-workers) all benefit from my aliveness, presence and love.”

-Dr. Felicia Williams Cosey, San Leandro, CA