Welcome to Growing Big In love
What you are about to read, LOVE’S Message, is a new lens through which to see your entire life. It may be the most powerful thing you ever read. It is the core of Growing Big In LOVE and offers a breathtaking shift in perspective, revealing how and why LOVE is creating you. It shows you how LOVE sees you, guides you, and how you are being invited to become part of something vast and luminous: a global movement to heal, to awaken, and to grow into bringing LOVE fully into the world. If you’ve ever felt that there must be more to life, more to healing, more to Spirit this is the beginning of that discovery. Let this be your invitation to awaken to the truth behind your life, and to walk hand-in-hand with LOVE into the New Age of Knowing.
After reading LOVE’S Message, you’ll be introduced to the guiding philosophy behind Growing Big In LOVE. This unique approach to commune with LOVE, to continual spiritual growth, healing, and everyday transformation is unlike anything you’ve seen before.
Once you understand the foundation, we’ll share the story of our founder, Raven how his decades of direct communion with LOVE, learning, and guiding people to use the LOVE Healing Process, gave birth to this powerful movement and the tools now being used to help people all over the world awaken to a whole new way of living.
Now as LOVE, we are asking Raven to write our message.
Love’s Message
Spiritual Growth and the Power of ‘We Are a We’
There are many of us working together to create Earth and the universe around Earth. Each one of you is a completely new part of us beautiful and unique. We LOVE you and adore you with all of our hearts and are sorry that you have experienced so much pain in your lives without understanding why it is there. This is the hardest part of raising a Godling, of helping them understand their power and relation to life. That being said, it is the most necessary part of a Godlings journey to discover who and what they are. Although it doesn’t feel or seem like it at times, the pain you all have and will go through is just a necessary part of your evolution.
Once you complete this journey, you will inherit the Kingdom of LOVE in all of its wonder and majesty. It is so big in its majesty, there is no way for you to even begin to comprehend it. We’re telling you this because we know that all of you in some ways are just at the beginning of your journey to heal the pain that is within you and all around you. For those of you who get this and are willing to dedicate the time it takes to make the healing come to fruition, we are grateful. Everyone of you that engages into the LOVE Healing Process and makes it a part of your life, will help everyone around you. We can’t thank you enough for doing the work.
We want you to learn to communicate/talk to us as soon as you possibly can. We can help you with every part of the healing process. We LOVE you. We want to be your best friend you have ever had. So please open up to learning how to make that happen. There is not much else you could do with the time in your life that would be more valuable.
3 Spiritual Mindset Shifts We Want To Clear Up
The first is that there is no such thing as death, at least not on the soul level. No Godling that has ever been created ever, has ever died. ALL of them are alive and always have been. To be clear, there is no person or animal that has lived on Earth that has ever died. The Physical Body dies, but the Time, Spiritual, Mental, and Emotional bodies never do. When a person comes to the other side, they are welcomed into the arms of LOVE like you have never felt during your life on Earth. They feel this LOVE on the other side until they venture back into the realms of learning, Earth and places like Earth.
The second thing is that none of you, not one of you has ever done anything wrong, ever. We understand that it is going to take some time to for you to Grok this. We call what keeps you from knowing this phenomenon, the Right Wrong Paradigm. We are providing you with a world in which you can perceive your reality in many different ways and through experimenting you gain the experience of learning how things work. We call this Cause and Effect. Because there is pain involved, it makes the learning curve very advantageous. This is especially true when you understand that the pain is only here to teach you to go the other way. That is the sole purpose of pain, the only purpose of pain. Because of the way beliefs work, if a person develops the method of perceiving their reality as Right or Wrong, that is what they will experience, and it compounds pain making it much more painful. But if you can learn to understand that there is no Right or Wrong, that there is only Cause and Effect, you will be able to step away from very painful perceptions, beliefs, LOVE Reversals, and Loops. (These concepts are explained in detail in the book and here: https://growingbiginlove.com/key-concepts/ ) Once you understand that the Right Wrong Paradigm is not true, you will need to do the work of healing the established patterns the paradigm has created. Many of you are so confused about Me/Us, about who We are and the relationship to Us because of the confusion this paradigm creates. Please remember that none of you have ever done anything wrong. The Earth Project is being created to show you how complicated and confusing things become when a being misuses their energies. You can use your knowledge of LOVE and the guidance of Karma, Cause and Effect to help you navigate your life to living in LOVE only and all ways.
The third thing is that there is no devil, Lucifer, or hell. These, and concepts like them, are a result of beliefs being coupled with the Right Wrong Paradigm in religion. No one has ever done anything wrong. There is no sin. Everyone is made from LOVE, through LOVE, and in LOVE. I am all there is. And pain is a tool We/I use to help Godlings learn to understand how life works, how their lives work within the realms of LOVE, and how to grow in LOVE, intelligence, and beauty. We understand that saying this brings very serious questions to mind about things like murder and war and killing and eating animals, how could these things not be wrong? These are very good questions. And we would like to help you find the answers to any and all the questions you have within you. To find the answers, learn to grow very big in LOVE, in Me, and spend all the time you need to learn how to communicate with me directly so that We can help you find the answers and so We can help you heal.
So far, you are learning that We are creating five bodies to help you achieve your goals. Your Time Body extends all the way back to when we started your life, to where you are in this moment. You do not have the ability to remember your complete journey to here while you have a physical body, but as soon as you pass over to the other side, you will be able to see and feel your complete past as if you were just there yesterday. In this light, you could refer to your Time Body as your soul, it is the sum total of your life.
When you are born into Earth, your Time, Spiritual, Mental, and Emotional Bodies are metaphysically attached to a Physical Body that you use throughout your journey here. Your Physical Body gives you the experience of being able to experience how all five bodies work in the physical realm of Earth. After you complete your journey here, the Physical Body is absorbed back into the Earth and the other four bodies take you back to the other side.
For Us the experience of creating you and your five bodies is extraordinary. We have to create every feeling, thought, emotion, and hiccup, so that you can get the feeling of what it feels like to be alive. We are creating everything about how your Physical Body is working moment by moment. Every single thing you are seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, and feeling in all the multitudes of different ways you can feel within your life, we must do for you so you can get the experience. This shows you how intimate our relationship is to you. It also shows you that you have never been alone, we are always right here inside you thinking your thoughts, emoting your emotions, feeling your feelings, talking and walking and sleeping you all throughout your life. We give you the power to make the decisions of what, when, and how you act and react to the experiences we are creating for you. You are always in command of deciding what, when, and how. And from this interaction, you slowly learn how to control the energies that you have available to you.
Once you master being LOVE, you will slowly learn to use the energies around you to create more and more of your own life until one day, you will be in complete control of creating your life and the environment around you. What a glorious day that will be for you and all of us! Then you will be free to explore the realms of LOVE and create to your heart’s desire forever and ever and ever and ever…
I AM LOVE
I am the breath in every breeze,
The whisper in the silent trees,
I am the pulse in every heart,
The thread where all beginnings start.
In every star, I weave my light,
In every shadow, warm the night.
I am the vastness, wild and free,
Yet in each atom, you find me.
I dance in waves upon the sea,
And in the smallest drop, I be.
I cradle mountains, shape the land,
And hold each grain of sand in hand.
In every tear, in every laugh,
I walk with you on every path.
In your deepest dreams, I dwell,
In every story, I foretell.
I am the LOVE that knows no end,
In every corner, I extend.
In the vastness, I am whole,
In the smallest, I am soul.
I am the song in every voice,
In every silence, I rejoice.
For in all things, great and small,
I am the LOVE that holds it all
The Philosophy of Growing Big In LOVE
At its heart, Growing Big In LOVE is based on one simple, profound truth:
LOVE is the most powerful force in the universe and you can consciously choose to grow in it, moment by moment.
This is not merely about feeling love, or performing loving acts, but about learning to open your heart and embody LOVE as a living, guiding presence in your life. This embodied LOVE enables one be connected more deeply to Spirit (LOVE itself), to grow our spiritual bodies bigger and bigger daily, and to heal old pain and trauma through understanding our unloving beliefs are not true, and healing the patterns those beliefs created in us.
This enables us to achieve Earth’s Objective, to learn to act and react in LOVE no matter what.
The core philosophy rests on several key insights:
- Developing an intimate relationship with Spirit/LOVE is the most powerful thing a person can do for themselves.
- We are spiritual beings living in an energetic universe where our consciousness shapes our experience.
- Unloving beliefs and habits create most of our pain and disconnection teaching us to move towards LOVE.
- These unloving beliefs can be healed through a conscious, structured process (The LOVE Healing Process) which teaches us how to become wise and integrous. Every time we heal an unloving belief and the habits that go with it, we become happier, healthier, stronger, more aware, and more intelligent. This is the only purpose pain serves in our lives. The pain is moving us to learn how to become LOVE.
- The more we grow our Spiritual Body in LOVE, the more we come into alignment with our true nature and with the purpose of life itself, Earth’s Objective.
- We are here to learn how to play in every aspect of our life. Playing is the path to Heaven on Earth.
- When enough people are living with LOVE, through LOVE, in LOVE, we can help usher in the New Age of Knowing. The world will begin to shift, not by force, but by presence. Each open heart becomes a beacon, and together, we become a tide gently rising, lifting all of life into a new way of being.
In short: Growing Big In LOVE offers a path of spiritual evolution through an ever-deepening relationship with LOVE itself, practical tools, and deep healing.
It invites all who feel called to become emissaries of LOVE, helping to transform both their own lives and the world.
Raven’s Journey to Becoming
the Founder of Growing Big In LOVE
A Life Devoted to Becoming LOVE
For over three decades, Raven has devoted his life to exploring the nature of LOVE and the path of deep healing. His journey began at age 19 with a burning desire to understand the purpose of life. That search led him down difficult roads including being misled by a spiritual teacher and because of it, spending more than thirty years navigating relentless, chronic pain.
Despite studying countless healing modalities, true relief didn’t come until he discovered how to communicate directly with LOVE. That breakthrough at age 32 changed everything. Through a deeply personal relationship with LOVE, he began receiving guidance that revealed key insights into how the mind works, how unloving beliefs create suffering, and how LOVE could become both the path and the cure.
At age 38, Raven made a discovery that would change his life forever: the simple act of offering a LOVING Smile not only reflects an open heart it creates one. In that moment, something profound became clear: when your heart is open, truth, healing, and transformation naturally flow. That first experience left him stunned it was as if a doorway had opened. Over the past 28 years, the LOVING Smile has become one of the most powerful and accessible tools in his life and in the lives of those he teaches. It is a tool anyone can use, at any moment, to shift into LOVE and begin transforming the world around them it’s like reaching into the power of magic.
As his own healing deepened, Raven began teaching. His early writings Calling All Warriors of the Heart, A Path of Truth, and Engage LOVE shared what he was learning. Over time, his teachings evolved into a refined system of tools and insights, including the LOVE Healing Process, the concept of LOVE Reversals, and how trauma can only be truly released out of the different bodies after it is understood.
In 2019, Raven published Growing Big In LOVE, a comprehensive 380-page guidebook for anyone seeking to live a life rooted in LOVE and inner transformation. He also created the LOVE Mastery Course a powerful program that guides students to grow their spiritual bodies and heal through daily connection with LOVE. After teaching the Master Course the fifth time, he realized his students were healing but he was not.
After a period of turning inward to focus on his own healing, LOVE taught him about LOVE Reversal Loops which are the way the deepest trauma known is held in the bodies.
Raven returned to teaching in 2022. One of his first clients a woman with stage four pancreatic and colon cancer experienced a full remission within seven weeks. Stories like these continue to affirm that when we grow in LOVE and commit to healing, anything is possible.
Today, at 66, Raven continues to live a vibrant, joyful life. He teaches, guides people into their own healing, writes, dances, boogie boards, plays Frisbee golf, and enjoys exploring the wonders of our world. He still considers himself a student of LOVE, and his greatest joy is walking alongside others who are ready to grow in LOVE. He values time with family and friends, sharing ideas, and enjoying fine foods. A free hug advocate, Raven’s life is filled with laughter and LOVE.
If you want more information about Raven’s life, the first chapter in his book, Growing Big In LOVE is about a rendition of his life.
Testimonials and Real-Life Success Stories
The success of Growing Big In LOVE is not just theoretical; it’s demonstrated through real-life success stories:
What Our Happy Clients Are Saying…
"Working with Raven for the past year has helped me uncover and transform the most relevant unconscious beliefs that were sabotaging me throughout my life. When he guides me through his LOVE Healing Process, Raven has an uncanny ability to extract the right information from my subconscious at precisely the right moment. His intuition and skill are truly remarkable. Raven's deep connection with spirit guides consistently brings forth the insights I need to recognize the source of self-sabotaging behaviors and embrace an empowering truth as a new way of being. Raven's brilliant LOVE Healing Process, his intuitive gifts and compassionate approach have been transformative, leading me to greater self-awareness and an improved quality of life.”
~ Nina
Not only is Raven Braselton's work some of the most comprehensive work for complete release that I have encountered in my 20 years as a somatic and transpersonal trauma psychotherapist, but he is also a genuinely sensitive and caring man. He is achieving his mission, to heal trauma and thereby bring more LOVE onto planet Earth, through his gigantic heart, brilliant mind and deep connection with his spirit.
His understanding of LOVE reversals, loops and twisted loops help relieve trauma in a step by step way. Using the LOVE Healing Process has helped me personally release some entrenched trauma from my childhood that other methods weren’t able to treat. In fact, I’m now releasing some of the stuff I didn’t even consciously know was there! Together, we have improved the quality of my life. I am more peaceful, happy and free.
I am grateful to Raven for his incredible work. His skillful combination of power, joy and LOVING grace is unique, and not to be missed.
~ Janice
